When combined with our heart and our awareness we can use our sexuality for its highest purpose: embracing, feeling deeply connected to and riding the very crest of life’s creative expression through us. Allowing our lust for and communion with life. But how to allow it when we fear falling into stereotypes or clichés? How to dance with it when we have such few role models, when we only know female sexuality through and for the male gaze? When we fear judgement and competition? Who gets to decide anyway? I am my own permission-granter. I dance for me, I dance for the world. My rules, my body, my life.