Hello, I’m Ruby May, an edge-dwelling, truth-seeking creative visionary, community leader, and facilitator, weaving together relational intelligence, feminine stewardship, and embodied activism in my work.

My journey has been shaped by a background in intimacy, sexuality, and shadow work, along with years of facilitating workshops internationally. A pivotal period working as a professional dominatrix ignited my interest in feminine leadership and the collective shadows surrounding power.

In 2018, I founded Know Your Flow, an online education and membership program that connects a global network of women exploring body literacy, cycle awareness, leadership, and cultural reimagination.

I also co-founded Sensing the Change, an initiative that brings together somatic practitioners and political activists to foster meaningful transformation.

Currently, I work as a certified body-oriented coach and serve as the community leader for Red School, the largest school of embodied feminine spirituality worldwide. I am also the co-founder of SABIA, an initiative supporting women to embrace menopause as a rite of passage.

Known for my gentle, authentic, and embodied approach to speaking and facilitation, I believe that no amount of political strategy can match the transformative power of collectively befriending our bodies. When we shift from “having” a body to fully experiencing “being” one, we move out of a power-over relationship with life and into a sense of kinship and interconnection with the world and each other.