Work with me

Being a human in a world that seems to be getting increasingly wild, is not always easy.

Transitions, inner descents and times of change don’t come with maps. They often ask us to let go of who we thought we were, without yet knowing who we are becoming

I work with people who find themselves at thresholds: moments of descent, rupture, initiation or deep questioning, where old strategies no longer work and something more truthful is waiting to emerge.

My work brings both softness and precision: a capacity to listen with care and attunement, alongside a willingness to name patterns, blind spots and guide you to see the subtle threads of self-abandonment or over-functioning.

This space can be supportive if you find yourself at a moment where something that once sustained you no longer does. You may be outwardly capable, while feeling deeply disoriented or unsteady underneath. There may be a sensed threshold – a change, descent or reorientation – that doesn’t feel right to walk alone. Often, there is much being held: relational complexity, emotional weight, responsibility or leadership, with limited places to set it down and be met without expectation.

For those in female bodies, I also offer cyclical, body-led leadership and (peri)menopause support.

My approach is:

Relational

Even if we’re exploring things you’d like to change, we let go of the need to ‘fix’ and honour that it’s by ‘being with‘ that real change is possible. 

Intimate

My work centres the importance of our relationship being founded on honesty and transparency. If appropriate, we may also work with the relational field between us in order to get clear on relational patterns and dynamics.

Embodied

While the mind loves to ‘understand,’ and insight is useful, real transformation happens in the body. I want to support you to tap into and trust the wisdom that’s always available to you here. 

Collaborative

While I’m here to guide and support you, the work we do is a collaboration between us, where you are encouraged to take responsibility for where it feels valuable to go.

Embracing of Taboos

There is nothing that’s taboo here. I bring years of experience in working with sexuality, kink and our shadows. The parts of you that are shamed, hidden or exiled are often the very places holding your power. 

Systemic

I don’t see you as an isolated individual but part of a larger, entangled web of relationships, cycles, systems and histories that you’re held in.

Pricing:

 

Single session (75 mins) : 130 euros

Series of 6 sessions : 720 euros

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I have had one-to-one sessions with Ruby working on difficult and shameful areas of my sexuality. Meeting Ruby has profoundly changed the way I live with my sexuality – making me more wholesome, open and connected to who I really am and the man I want to be. She is gentle and honest and very precise in her observations, helping me to gain the courage to grow in and in between our meetings. I am deeply grateful.”

– Henrick

“Working with Ruby for 3 months, has seen me transition in a way I was not expecting. It brought to light to a lot of what was happening already but in a safe, curious, loving way that allows for change to just appear.

This is an invitation for a personal journey but also a collective one. Ruby is a wonderful support, very true, passionate and wise.”

– Inbar

“Ruby’s coaching gives me a space to talk to the deepest parts of me that I sometimes do not always give space for, helping me to listen to my inner voice.  I am grateful for the way she would never let me get away with fooling myself but really going beyond all my layers until I got to what felt like the truth of the matter. There were many, many moments of ‘aha’, and they continue to ripple out months and months later….”

– Guinevere

My credentials

 

My work is shaped by over two decades of embodied study, facilitation and spiritual enquiry, alongside the lived experience of over four decades of being human.  I remain grateful to the teachers and lineages that have supported my work, some of which include:

– Certification in Body-Oriented Coaching (The Somatic School, ongoing)
– Certified Mediator with the Society for Mediation
– Training in Real Life Facilitation (Diane Musho Hamilton)
– Authentic Relating, levels I, II & Relational Leadership
– Non-violent Communication (Donal Green)
– Menstruality Leadership (Red School)
– Collective Trauma & We Spaces (Thomas Hübl)
– BSc in Psychology