Mentoring | Ruby May

Work with me

Being a human in a world that seems to be getting increasingly wild, is not always easy.

At certain points in our life, we all can benefit from someone walking along side us, offering a loving, non-judgemental and compassionate ear. Especially in times of descent into our underworlds, moments of transition or change or when challenging parts of us are asking to be faced.

There are no maps on our journey through life and we live in a culture that has little understanding or appreciation for shadow work, body wisdom and emotional literacy, being in the unknown or the cycles we all go through of shedding old identities

In my sessions I provide a gentle, compassionate and nurturing space for you to slow down, reconnect with yourself, your inner compass, and receive the deeper intelligence within you.

Drawing on nearly two decades of professional experience in working with the healing power of human connection and an approach deeply rooted in the Feminine, some of the themes that I often work with are:

My approach is:

Relational

Even if we’re exploring things you’d like to change, we let go of the need to ‘fix’ and honour that it’s by ‘being with‘ that real change is possible.

Intimate

My work centres the importance of our relationship being founded on honesty and transparency. If appropriate, we may also work with the relational field between us in order to get clear on relational patterns and dynamics.

Embodied

While the mind loves to ‘understand,’ and insight is useful, real transformation happens in the body. I want to support you to tap into and trust the wisdom that’s always available to you here.

Collaborative

While I’m here to guide and support you, the work we do is a collaboration between us, where you are encouraged to take responsibility for where it feels valuable to go.

Embracing of Taboos

There is nothing that’s taboo here. I bring years of experience in working with sexuality, kink and our shadows. The parts of you that are shamed, hidden or exiled are often the very places holding your power.

Systemic

I don’t see you as an isolated individual but part of a larger, entangled web of relationships, cycles, systems and histories that you’re held in.

Pricing:

Single session (75 mins) : 130 euros

Series of 6 sessions : 720 euros

Book a free 15 minute chat with me

I have had one-to-one sessions with Ruby working on difficult and shameful areas of my sexuality. Meeting Ruby has profoundly changed the way I live with my sexuality – making me more wholesome, open and connected to who I really am and the man I want to be. She is gentle and honest and very precise in her observations, helping me to gain the courage to grow in and in between our meetings. I am deeply grateful.”

– Henrick

“Working with Ruby for 3 months, has seen me transition in a way I was not expecting. It brought to light to a lot of what was happening already but in a safe, curious, loving way that allows for change to just appear. The cycle awareness has helped me transition and blossom, it feels, into womanhood!

Ruby is like a gentle sister, helping me witness and celebrate my achievements, giving voice to my inner critic and space for my inner child. Our weekly calls helped me keep my inner dialogue and reflection process alive and offered a lot of acceptance into what is.

This is an invitation for a personal journey but also a collective one. Ruby is a wonderful teacher, very true, passionate and wise. Her offering is extremely generous and life honouring.”

– Inbar

“Ruby’s coaching gives me a space to talk to the deepest parts of me that I sometimes do not always give space for, helping me to listen to my inner voice. I am grateful for the way she would never let me get away with fooling myself but really going beyond all my layers until I got to what felt like the truth of the matter. There were many, many moments of ‘aha’, and they continue to ripple out months and months later….”

– Guinevere

My credentials

Although my work is informed by the various trainings and wonderful teachers I have experienced in the past, what I have to offer is thanks to over four decades of life experience and two decades of spiritual mentorship and enquiry.

Currently certifying in Body-Oriented Coaching with the Somatic School and doing a post graduate certification on Feminine leadership skills at Red School
Authentic Relating Levels 1 & 2
Heart IQ Facilitator training
Sexological Bodywork certification
Menstruality Leadership certification with Alexandra Pope & Sjanie Wurlitzer Hugo at Red School
Menstrual Medicine Circles certification
Pelvic Heart Integration with Deborah Anapol
Deep Living with James Swank
‘Herzabeit’ with Michael Hartenfels
Tantra with John Hawken
Non-Violent Communication with Donal Ganon
Cyclical Business training with Sophie Jane Harding
Collective Trauma & We Spaces with Thomas Hübl
Women’s Temple Training with Chameli Ardagh
Ashtanga yoga 200 hr teacher training
Reiki levels 1 & 2
BSc in Psychology