Fucking trees

Fucking trees

An erotic encounter was not something I expected as I climbed into the beckoning branches of an old avocado tree, 5 years or so ago, whilst woofing in New Zealand. I had been working in various organic farms, my delicate city princess feet toughened by weeks of...
Conscious Kink

Conscious Kink

Rather than suppressing or acting out in unconscious and self-destructive ways, Conscious or Sacred Kink is the embodied exploration of the full spectrum of our sexual expression in a consensual, risk-aware and conscious way. It is a source of great personal and...

The Darker side of Lust

The Darker Side Of Lust It’s always the same. The topic of rape fantasy comes up in a workshop and a palpable sigh of the relief ripples through the circle, as each woman realizes she is not alone. A study in the Journal of Sex Research has estimated that up to 57...
Coming out: my love of public hard ons

Coming out: my love of public hard ons

There is something about these images that touches me. Male desire is generally something that is boasted about: the more potent you are, the more of a man you are.  Unless of course it comes at an inappropriate time or place. There is something about the volatility...

Day 23

One of the qualities of the second half of our menstrual cycle, when we tip into the landscape of Autumn and Winter, is that our focus starts orientating again towards ourself, rather than the world around us. This is the time when we are invited to face ourselves, to...