Fucking trees
An erotic encounter was not something I expected as I climbed into the beckoning branches of an old avocado tree, 5 years or so ago, whilst woofing in New Zealand. I had been working in various organic farms, my delicate city princess feet toughened by weeks of...
Conscious Kink
Rather than suppressing or acting out in unconscious and self-destructive ways, Conscious or Sacred Kink is the embodied exploration of the full spectrum of our sexual expression in a consensual, risk-aware and conscious way. It is a source of great personal and...
The Darker side of Lust
The Darker Side Of Lust It’s always the same. The topic of rape fantasy comes up in a workshop and a palpable sigh of the relief ripples through the circle, as each woman realizes she is not alone. A study in the Journal of Sex Research has estimated that up to 57...
Coming out: my love of public hard ons
There is something about these images that touches me. Male desire is generally something that is boasted about: the more potent you are, the more of a man you are. Unless of course it comes at an inappropriate time or place. There is something about the volatility...
Day 23
One of the qualities of the second half of our menstrual cycle, when we tip into the landscape of Autumn and Winter, is that our focus starts orientating again towards ourself, rather than the world around us. This is the time when we are invited to face ourselves, to...
Day 24
We all have an inner critic. That voice that torments us, that tells us we are not worthy, too much, not enough... The inner critic is often rampant on those days in our cycle where the glass feels half empty or everything just feels too much. Last month on day 24 I...
Day 1
So much has changed in this past year of my cycle enquiry. Not just in my attitude to my cycle and how I live accordingly, but there are some Really Big Changes, that I've kept kind of quiet about on here ;) I've gone through so many years of my bleed being a...
Day 1
So much has changed in this past year of my cycle enquiry. Not just in my attitude to my cycle and how I live accordingly, but there are some Really Big Changes, that I've kept kind of quiet about on here ;) I've gone through so many years of my bleed being a...